Stories of Mistresses: He Wanted His Cake and to Eat it too
This is the fourth installment of our series The Mistress Speaks. The following is a story that was sent to me, unchanged, except for removing any identifying information. Enjoy!
So I read ur blog…really love it….wanted 2 tell my side. I was talking to a him for 4 yrs…I didn’t want anything from him other than time, a good screw and some bill money every once in a while. We started as friends back in college…after we graduated I moved to NY he stayed in Atlanta…we met up 5 years ago due to his mom passing with all the emotion we ended up having sex….its been on going until about one and a half yrs ago when I found out he got a girl pregnant….so he tells me she was a one night stand blah blah come to find out she is his wife! Of 6 yrs!!!!!! And this is his second child!
We didn’t talk for two months after I damn near killed him. But I found out I was pregnant told him, but later I lost my child and he was there with me every step of the way but then I began to feel guilty so I tried to push him away so he wouldn’t want to be bothered….which turned him on even more…..I ran into his wife about a 6mo ago…she knew who I was he had pictures of me in his office….I didn’t know that…..she explained she’s not mad but wants to know what I have that she doesn’t, I explained that’s between her and him I am not sure. I did apologize to her because even after I found out she was his wife I still talked to him….I told her our history together from college and I was honest to her.
We both confronted him fourth of July ….he invited me to his family cook out…..so I invited her!…….he told his wife he loved me from way back in school but couldn’t control me like he did her, she was good mother and wife material but I had the fire the ambition and the lust that she lacked….I would do things she wouldn’t and I would never hide my feelings……he explained how he wanted kids with me be knew I didn’t want any so he got everything he wanted but from two women..
He would throw me in her face if she did not want to have sex, little did she know I wasn’t having sex with him after I lost our child….I explained all of that to her I explained my position…I didn’t want anything but company I saw him as a friend with benefits basically nothing more no feelings no nothing…..long story short….he is divorcing….loosing his house…..and I haven’t spoke to him since….
Greed can kill you….and I think he learned from his mistake.
wow, sound similar to something my ex did me, but she’s still with him, of and on. better them than me!
Honestly all these posts just make me sad. Folks don’t want to do right, nobody’smaking them and meanwhile the kids are watchingand learning. ..what?
Even though the other woman was wrong in her part on this situation, I do have to agree with her: greed CAN AND WILL kill you. This goes to show you how a man will get away with murder if you allow him to do it. When you stand your ground and make it known that you won’t be treated like stir-fry shit, it won’t give him the room to do it. Good post.
I know from experience that you can control other people. Yes, we were all raised with a moral compass, but until we are in it how can we judge. Friends with benefits is not uncommon. But you have to do what is right for you. This is a good series.