The Mistress Speaks: I’m Young and He’s Rich

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Stories of Mistresses: I’m Young and He’s Rich

This is the sixth installment of our series The Mistress Speaks. The following is a story that was sent to me, unchanged, except for removing any identifying information. Enjoy!

I’m young.  Just turned 22 last month.  I’ve had two major relationships, both with men who took care of me (one was a ball player, one was in the music industry).  I simply can’t see myself being with someone who can’t satisfy me in EVERY way possible.  I know it sounds childish, foolish, silly, selfish and every other negative thing.  However, I’ve come to terms with that’s how I am.  I’ve been raised with money so it’s difficult to accept anything less.

Now, let me get to the point.  I’ve known my current man since I was like 11, he was around 23.  No, there was most definitely not any R. Kelly-ish going on…he was just my first innocent crush.  We fell out of touch for a few years and linked back up when I was 21.  The chemistry was automatic between us.  He is very wealthy and not married, but living with his girlfriend and their son.  They’ve had relationship problems in the past, and I know that’s no excuse but I care about him.  Normally, I would be on the other side of the spectrum of this whole debate, but linking back up with him has taught me a lot.

In my case, I’m dealing with someone else’ man simply because I care about him too.  Is it because he was my first crush?  Is it because he’s a provider?  Is it because he’s gorgeous?  Who knows?!  All I know is, I’ve cared about him more than the two aforementioned.

It is what it is




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Brown Sugar

Lives in music, sits down to read like she’s at the Feast of Heaven, enters every room like a queen or a spy, reads faces the way a gypsy reads palms, knows sex the way a nomad knows the desert’s shifting sands, needs laughter to breathe, eats in celebration of taste, works joyously, loves uproariously, smiles insightfully, dreams delightfully.

3 thoughts on “The Mistress Speaks: I’m Young and He’s Rich”

  1. Wow. This story is very puzzling to me when I read it. Is this man someone who’s a family friend? A friend of a family member? I just don’t understand this situation. I think she should be very careful with this man. Sure enough he may only have a girlfriend and all, but he also has a family with the woman he’s with, and that in turn can pose problems, because he has a family. I believe this young woman can find a man that’s not spoken for whom can also fulfill whatever desires she has.

  2. There are no men (single and available) out here. They know that they can have two women at one time. Some men are childish, have no plan or just don’t want to be in a committed relationship. It has change drastically over the years on how they are more women then there are men. And some women are for sharing men. Just be careful out there ladies.

  3. @Damaged: Really? There are *no* men? I guess perception is reality.

    As to the poster, if you want a man who can satisfy you in EVERY way, why are you seeing a man who won’t even commit to being with just you? I don’t understand this….

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