here’s a lot of hemming and hawing in the black blogsphere as well as in the mainstream media on how impossible it is for a black woman to get married.

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There’s a lot of hate in the blogsphere directed toward black men and a lot of bullshit, uniformed dialogue when it comes to interracial dating, often coming from the same sources. To many of the IR dating sites hold white men up as the example of all that’s right with men and black men of all that’s wrong with them.

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While attitudes have softened toward interracial dating and most people don’t view them as abhorrent any longer, their are still plenty of biases in place when it comes to the mixing of the races – black and white in particular:

By analyzing Yahoo personals, researchers found that white men prefer Asian and Latino women to African American women as dating partners, and white women favor African American and Latino men over Asian men.

Asians, African Americans and Latinos were more likely to include white people as possible dates than white people were to include them – suggesting that white people, as the dominant racial group in the U.S., hold the power when it comes to interracial dating.

“Stereotypical images of masculinity and femininity shape dating choices and continue to be perpetuated in the mass media,” said Feliciano, UCI assistant professor of sociology and Chicano/Latino studies. “The hyper-feminine image of Asian American women contrasts greatly with the image of Asian men, who are often portrayed as asexual.”

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