Comments on: Pussy is Not the Greatest Gift You Can Give a Man

By: Deryl

Deryl — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 13:51:50 +0000

Greetings,

Sex is as natural as breathing….folks in 3rd world countries, no place to live, no food etc…& the babies keep on coming…why ’cause they are poor…no, sex is natural…..all I can say is BE Shrewed & careful….I digress

By: Black Mensa Woman

Black Mensa Woman — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 03:12:12 +0000

Snaps!

I have never thought of having sex as a “gift” to a man.

I like the way you put it, though.

And the dude who called you “slut” has a small penis and poor skills in the sack.

By: m.dot

m.dot — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 21:15:43 +0000

You have a strong writing voice.

As a Black woman talking about sex, you risk being called 50 million ho’s by broaching the topic.

Keep doing it.

I have written a few post that you may be intersted in.

I Know Why Zane Sells
http://modelminority.blogspot.com/2008/08/i-know-why-zane-sells.html

Pussy is a Commodity
http://modelminority.blogspot.com/2008/04/pssy-is-commodity.html

and

If You Want to Change Society, Close Your Legs.
http://www.racialicious.com/2008/07/03/if-you-want-to-change-society-close-your-legs/

I would love to hear you write about the impact rap music has on how Black teen girls view their sexuality.

By: Webmistress

Webmistress — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 03:15:15 +0000

Halleluiah!

I come from a culture where it’s understood that both men and women want, need and like sex equally (Eastern Europe).

Since I moved here (17 years ago), I’ve been trying to articulate what’s it like to grow up in the society where judging a woman by the size of her sexual appetites is simply not a concept (unless she turns the proceedings into a soap opera, admittedly). It always felt like I’m trying to teach someone to walk by just talking to them… I guess I was too close to the subject matter.

Thank you, thank you for putting it in such clear, simple words!

By: TJ

TJ — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 23:10:43 +0000

I think that sex is a gift, as in something special in terms of being a wonderful experience, but like you said, it is something to be enjoyed by both parties.

By: Offering

Offering — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 21:10:17 +0000

Pussy is not the gift…The gift is allowing yourself to reach the pinnacle that you so need in ya life…You work hard..You deserve it…Gi dat number…make dat visit..Only when you allow yourself ‘its okay’ can you reach the taste that eve experienced…the word ‘eve’ is a yantric chant you know Happy womens history month to all women…do it for me…do it for you

By: Shenitra

Shenitra — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:42:23 +0000

word

By: Sowhatiff Jenkins

Sowhatiff Jenkins — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 18:38:50 +0000

Great post! We as women too often allow other people to define how we should or should not operate. At the end of the day, I have one judge (as per my faith), the good Lord above. Besides Him, I only have to answer to myself. And I can live with my choices and actions, that’s all that really matters.

By: Ronni

Ronni — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 18:35:29 +0000

Slut.
As we used to say on the playground: It takes one to know one.

By: Slim Jackson

Slim Jackson — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 18:30:55 +0000

This is a great and honest blog post. On my site, we’ve talked about the sexual partner numbers question and I’ve written about the “how soon is too soon” formula. Please take a look around my site at http://www.threewaystotakeit.com. We share both the male and female perspective on a variety of topics that I think you would find interesting based on what you’re doing here. I’ll definitely be back to check out your site again!