Comments on: A Ring? Try Put a Title On It http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/ The Dating and Relationship Magazine for African-American Women Mon, 19 Apr 2010 02:51:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Looking for a Husband? Date Marraige Minded Men | Black Info.Net http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-2771 Looking for a Husband? Date Marraige Minded Men | Black Info.Net Sat, 29 Aug 2009 17:40:13 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-2771 [...] all surprised when not only won’t he “put a ring on it,” he won’t “put a title on it,” [...] [...] all surprised when not only won’t he “put a ring on it,” he won’t “put a title on it,” [...]

]]> By: Looking for a Husband? Date Marraige Minded Men | Brown Sugar http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-2473 Looking for a Husband? Date Marraige Minded Men | Brown Sugar Mon, 20 Jul 2009 15:04:47 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-2473 [...] all surprised when not only won’t he “put a ring on it,” he won’t “put a title on it,” [...] [...] all surprised when not only won’t he “put a ring on it,” he won’t “put a title on it,” [...]

]]> By: Jhendrie86 http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-874 Jhendrie86 Tue, 23 Dec 2008 20:27:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-874 ladies, dont settle for that bullshit. It time we women stop settling for a lot of shit, including our relationships and what we want out of life. we must decide today THAT WE WILL STOP SETTLING AND GET WHAT WE WANT AND DESERVE. ladies, dont settle for that bullshit. It time we women stop settling for a lot of shit, including our relationships and what we want out of life. we must decide today THAT WE WILL STOP SETTLING AND GET WHAT WE WANT AND DESERVE.

]]> By: Untouched Jewel http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-825 Untouched Jewel Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:01:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-825 I honestly believe that if a guy asks a female what she is looking for from a guy, BE UP FRONT! If you want a relationship, say so. If you don't say so. But one thing all single women should do when seeing men, is do the same thing they do to us: KEEP YOUR OPTIONS VERY OPEN. Men do it all the time, why can't we? There are plenty of fine men out there that are single and datable. Date until you can't date no more. If a man gets his poor lil ego hurt, tough shit! They don't care when we get ourselves emotionally tied up in them, and they decide to move on to "greener grass". To hell with that madness. KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN. I honestly believe that if a guy asks a female what she is looking for from a guy, BE UP FRONT! If you want a relationship, say so. If you don’t say so. But one thing all single women should do when seeing men, is do the same thing they do to us: KEEP YOUR OPTIONS VERY OPEN. Men do it all the time, why can’t we? There are plenty of fine men out there that are single and datable. Date until you can’t date no more. If a man gets his poor lil ego hurt, tough shit! They don’t care when we get ourselves emotionally tied up in them, and they decide to move on to “greener grass”. To hell with that madness. KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN.

]]> By: FlyyGurl http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-824 FlyyGurl Wed, 29 Oct 2008 06:20:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-824 oh lady....where did you leanr all these lessons? You are the sensei at the top of the mountain, and i am the monk who must climb...PREACH!!!!! oh lady….where did you leanr all these lessons? You are the sensei at the top of the mountain, and i am the monk who must climb…PREACH!!!!!

]]> By: sexyndacity http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-820 sexyndacity Tue, 28 Oct 2008 20:07:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-820 Okay, I'm 22 and I am dating a guy that is 34yrs old. I have been dating him for 3yrs and only know it's been official. We currently are living with each other and times I want to give up and throw in the towel but I won't quit on him because when things get crazy he hasn't quit on me. I know he genuinely loves me without one doubt. You have to give some people time but still let them know that you know what you want in life. If that guy shows no interest in marriage in the next few years then you should go because you are wasting each others time. A lot of women in their 30's are in a rush to get married without getting to know the guy and the whole relationship because they feel they are getting older faster. Better to marry your partner when they are ready instead of pressured and trapped. Women need to stop thinking a baby keeps a man. America is one of the top countries for divorces. Many black women never get a chance to walk down the aisle. I'm taking my time and loving each blessings in life. I want to get married in the future but I am still young and need to find out more about myself and I know there are many women older than me that still need some soul searching. Okay, I’m 22 and I am dating a guy that is 34yrs old. I have been dating him for 3yrs and only know it’s been official. We currently are living with each other and times I want to give up and throw in the towel but I won’t quit on him because when things get crazy he hasn’t quit on me. I know he genuinely loves me without one doubt. You have to give some people time but still let them know that you know what you want in life. If that guy shows no interest in marriage in the next few years then you should go because you are wasting each others time. A lot of women in their 30′s are in a rush to get married without getting to know the guy and the whole relationship because they feel they are getting older faster. Better to marry your partner when they are ready instead of pressured and trapped. Women need to stop thinking a baby keeps a man. America is one of the top countries for divorces. Many black women never get a chance to walk down the aisle. I’m taking my time and loving each blessings in life. I want to get married in the future but I am still young and need to find out more about myself and I know there are many women older than me that still need some soul searching.

]]> By: Miss April Joy http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-818 Miss April Joy Mon, 27 Oct 2008 22:52:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-818 I really enjoyed reading this blog and I have always preached this and it bothers me when women want to bend over backwards for a guy who won't even commit to them even after years, he just isn't ready for a real relationship and he is scared that the moment he makes it official something better is going to come along. I really enjoyed reading this blog and I have always preached this and it bothers me when women want to bend over backwards for a guy who won’t even commit to them even after years, he just isn’t ready for a real relationship and he is scared that the moment he makes it official something better is going to come along.

]]> By: Belle is... http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-816 Belle is... Mon, 27 Oct 2008 22:07:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-816 I checked my numbers this afternoon and was like, why am i getting so many hits? Lo and behold. Thanks for the kind words and the love... and the analysis too. I should do an Epilogue on Anatomy of A Break Up. Some interesting developments. <br/><br/>As always, you're insight is painfully valid. Makes me think too hard, damn you! I checked my numbers this afternoon and was like, why am i getting so many hits? Lo and behold. Thanks for the kind words and the love… and the analysis too. I should do an Epilogue on Anatomy of A Break Up. Some interesting developments.

As always, you’re insight is painfully valid. Makes me think too hard, damn you!

]]> By: Anonymous http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-813 Anonymous Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:39:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-813 I love your blog you always speak the truth I used to be in a psuedo relationship for about two years and I was soooo unhappy. The guy used to do all types of crap that men pull to try you and when I used to say something to him about it he would immediately say that I am not your boyfriend so why should it matter. When it ended it ended horribly I feel that the longer the psuedo relationship went on, the less and less respect that I recieved from him until it blew up in my face. He is with some girl now that mind you he was talking to when we were "together" and they are in a psuedo relationship and he is really trying to get back with me Oh well I have moved on and I am happy. I love your blog you always speak the truth I used to be in a psuedo relationship for about two years and I was soooo unhappy. The guy used to do all types of crap that men pull to try you and when I used to say something to him about it he would immediately say that I am not your boyfriend so why should it matter. When it ended it ended horribly I feel that the longer the psuedo relationship went on, the less and less respect that I recieved from him until it blew up in my face. He is with some girl now that mind you he was talking to when we were “together” and they are in a psuedo relationship and he is really trying to get back with me Oh well I have moved on and I am happy.

]]> By: Anonymous http://brownsugar28.com/2008/10/19/black-women-dating-a-ring-try-put-a-title-on-it/comment-page-1/#comment-812 Anonymous Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:10:00 +0000 http://brownsugar28.com/?p=564#comment-812 I totaly agree! Glad I found this blog. This time last year I started "haningin out" with a guy who asked me up front what I was looking for, and coming out of a relationship, I said I was cool just hanging out...Fast forward 5-6 months and feelings changed. He said he loved me, I knew I cared for him, but he was insistent upon not calling it what it was. <br/>I tried to tough it out, but couldnt stomach it and told him that he was full of * you know what*. When he realized I was serious and didnt want to be with him unless he respected what we supposedly had, he changed his tune. Still going strong to this day=0)-but if he hadnt come around...well they say time heals all wounds, right? I totaly agree! Glad I found this blog. This time last year I started “haningin out” with a guy who asked me up front what I was looking for, and coming out of a relationship, I said I was cool just hanging out…Fast forward 5-6 months and feelings changed. He said he loved me, I knew I cared for him, but he was insistent upon not calling it what it was.
I tried to tough it out, but couldnt stomach it and told him that he was full of * you know what*. When he realized I was serious and didnt want to be with him unless he respected what we supposedly had, he changed his tune. Still going strong to this day=0)-but if he hadnt come around…well they say time heals all wounds, right?

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